You already know that you at least somewhat like him, and he's left a respectable impact on you. But is there anything about him that makes you think you two would be a good fit in the long run?
Put otherwise, is he deserving of more of your time, or should you split up right now?
It can be challenging to figure out how we feel about someone so quickly on a first date. To assist you, have a look at
* He Pays Attention To You.
Have you ever talked to a guy that you know isn't paying attention? He continues to look aside while nodding and occasionally saying "hmm."
Additionally, it seems that the longer you chat, the more upset he becomes.
And no sooner have you finished talking than he starts babbling on about something completely unrelated to what you just said!
This is a dead giveaway that a guy isn't paying attention to what you have to say.
Have you ever talked to a guy that you know isn't paying attention? He continues to look aside while nodding and occasionally saying "hmm."
Additionally, it seems that the longer you chat, the more upset he becomes.
And no sooner have you finished talking than he starts babbling on about something completely unrelated to what you just said!
This is a dead giveaway that a guy isn't paying attention to what you have to say.
Conversely, it's a huge sign that a man has been paying attention if he asks you questions based on what you've been saying. What you have to say matters to him, and he's curious to learn more.
This is crucial since any relationship to succeed requires active listening between the partners.
This is crucial since any relationship to succeed requires active listening between the partners.
* He's Optimistic
Being confident in a man is one of the telltale signals that he's a keeper. Do you recall your date with The Biggest Pessimist in the World?
Yes, indeed, you do! Everybody has been there. For him, nothing has ever gone well and nothing ever will.
To give him energy and motivation, you tell him, "You just need to find something you love to do."
He adds somberly, "Ha, that'll never happen," and then downs another beer.
Being confident in a man is one of the telltale signals that he's a keeper. Do you recall your date with The Biggest Pessimist in the World?
Yes, indeed, you do! Everybody has been there. For him, nothing has ever gone well and nothing ever will.
To give him energy and motivation, you tell him, "You just need to find something you love to do."
He adds somberly, "Ha, that'll never happen," and then downs another beer.
Adversity produces more negativity. If a guy can't even muster up some positivity for a frigging first date, just think of what kind of person he'll be in a relationship!
However, it's a clear indication that a man is someone you want to spend a lot of time with if he brings a lot of positive energy to the date and suddenly makes you feel optimistic about the world.
However, it's a clear indication that a man is someone you want to spend a lot of time with if he brings a lot of positive energy to the date and suddenly makes you feel optimistic about the world.
* He Laughs You Out
This is yet another encouraging indication that he is a keeper; it seems so clear, doesn't it? A man is unquestionably a keeper if he can make you laugh easily during a first date, when two complete strangers must find a way to click.
It's difficult to make someone laugh, and finding a man who can does this is difficult. It would be worthwhile to pursue this guy if you have the feeling that he will truly make you giggle uncontrollably.
Naturally, it also helps if he's attractive!
This is yet another encouraging indication that he is a keeper; it seems so clear, doesn't it? A man is unquestionably a keeper if he can make you laugh easily during a first date, when two complete strangers must find a way to click.
It's difficult to make someone laugh, and finding a man who can does this is difficult. It would be worthwhile to pursue this guy if you have the feeling that he will truly make you giggle uncontrollably.
Naturally, it also helps if he's attractive!
* He Clearly Made an Attempt to Look Well
When a guy shows up for a date wearing rags, it's always the worst. As in, this is a date? Or are we merely here to kill time while he takes his car in for maintenance?
A man who takes pride in his appearance when he's with you is showing you that he values both you and himself. And what fantastic signals these are. He wants you to know that he is making an attempt to impress you.
When a guy shows up for a date wearing rags, it's always the worst. As in, this is a date? Or are we merely here to kill time while he takes his car in for maintenance?
A man who takes pride in his appearance when he's with you is showing you that he values both you and himself. And what fantastic signals these are. He wants you to know that he is making an attempt to impress you.
* You're At Ease
We've all experienced unpleasant dates in the past, let's face it. We experience extreme nervousness, awkwardness, and lack of confidence.
And we believe that everything depends on him, his actions, and his mindset.
We've all experienced unpleasant dates in the past, let's face it. We experience extreme nervousness, awkwardness, and lack of confidence.
And we believe that everything depends on him, his actions, and his mindset.
On the other hand, it's a really good indication that you two can click in the long run and one of the best indications he's a keeper if you feel genuinely at ease with him—so at ease that you can be yourself. There are genuine vibes here, and you and he both feel at ease.
* He's Interested In You
You know when someone on a date is obviously unhappy to be there? It's terrible. It's obvious he's not listening to you when you say things.
Even worse, he never poses queries to you. He truly doesn't give a damn and is eager to either end the date or bring you back to his house.
He wants to know more about you if he starts to ask you questions, makes remarks about how you look, and appears to be enjoying himself. He seems interested in you and might be a good match.
* He's Interested In You
You know when someone on a date is obviously unhappy to be there? It's terrible. It's obvious he's not listening to you when you say things.
Even worse, he never poses queries to you. He truly doesn't give a damn and is eager to either end the date or bring you back to his house.
He wants to know more about you if he starts to ask you questions, makes remarks about how you look, and appears to be enjoying himself. He seems interested in you and might be a good match.
* The Talk Moves Along Easily
There are genuinely no uncomfortable pauses, awkward silences, gazing around, or frantic attempts to come up with fresh conversation topics!
Instead, you can't believe you guys have been sitting here for two hours already because the talk runs naturally like a tap!
This is an indication that there is chemistry between the two of you and that you have genuine promise when the talk flows so easily.
There are genuinely no uncomfortable pauses, awkward silences, gazing around, or frantic attempts to come up with fresh conversation topics!
Instead, you can't believe you guys have been sitting here for two hours already because the talk runs naturally like a tap!
This is an indication that there is chemistry between the two of you and that you have genuine promise when the talk flows so easily.
* He's Insecure!
Alright, so you don't want to go on a first date with a total worrier who is unable to speak. However, when a guy exhibits a hint of nervousness, it can be endearing and another indication that he's a keeper.
Why? It indicates that he is not full of bravado or an odd elevated self of sense, but rather that he genuinely wants to impress you. He wants this to go well since he is a human person.
That's a charming quality that frequently heralds the beginning of something adorable and passionate. Oh no!
Alright, so you don't want to go on a first date with a total worrier who is unable to speak. However, when a guy exhibits a hint of nervousness, it can be endearing and another indication that he's a keeper.
Why? It indicates that he is not full of bravado or an odd elevated self of sense, but rather that he genuinely wants to impress you. He wants this to go well since he is a human person.
That's a charming quality that frequently heralds the beginning of something adorable and passionate. Oh no!
* He Is All Positive Regarding Humans
"So, mom? It is SO nice to hear from a man on a first date, "What a wonderful woman!"
Far superior to "So, my mom? How b**** that is!
Correct?
Yes.
This also applies to the way he speaks about everyone, even his former partners. If he treats people rudely, that's not a good indicator.
"So, mom? It is SO nice to hear from a man on a first date, "What a wonderful woman!"
Far superior to "So, my mom? How b**** that is!
Correct?
Yes.
This also applies to the way he speaks about everyone, even his former partners. If he treats people rudely, that's not a good indicator.
* Finally, He Makes The Payment.
He both offers and demands.
He will not accept no as a response, nor will he allow you to cover the costs. He won't dispute a split bill either. He pays for dinner. You've found the one!
Please feel free to leave a remark below with your opinions. What other clues indicate that he's a keeper?
Remain joyful!
He both offers and demands.
He will not accept no as a response, nor will he allow you to cover the costs. He won't dispute a split bill either. He pays for dinner. You've found the one!
Please feel free to leave a remark below with your opinions. What other clues indicate that he's a keeper?
Remain joyful!